There are two types of people in the World
- those that think they are "trying" and those that decide what they want
and do something about it.
Since you are here at the Self Help Outlet, you're blessed to be in the
second group and realize there is always something you can do about your
current situation, even if only changing how you feel about it or what it
means to you.
Life is full of challenges and decisions. And most people make it through
whether they take charge or not. But some people have figured out that by
taking responsibility and guiding their own actions that life can be many
times more rewarding!
No matter what you want to change in your life, there's virtually always
some role you can play - once you learn how.
From diet, health, exercise, lifestyle changes, habits, abuse, addiction,
self mastery, financial issues to hobbies and leisure activities - you can
learn how to start getting more out of life in your every day actions!
Here are some search terms to give you some ideas of the areas in your life
you can take charge of and improve:
||anxiety and depression
|audio books self help
||self improvement mp3
|self help audio
||fat loss programs
||body and mind training
how to sing
||credit and debt
This is just the tip of the
iceberg! Do you enjoy playing sports like soccer, golf or mixed martial
arts? Are there issues you'd like to improve like shyness, anxiety, panic
disorder or addiction? These are all things you can change for the better!
Discover how YOU can improve a lot on even your most simple hobbies like
playing the lottery, betting on sports, making wine, playing a musical
instrument, learning how to use your ipod better or learning how to speak
You'll soon learn that when you improve the things you think, say and do -
your entire life improves!
Bookmark this page to your favorites and check it out as you consider things
you are already dealing with or would like to accomplish in your life. There
is always help available - the "how to" techniques that will give you
control and improvement in all the areas of your life that matter to you the
Even if you don't see something mentioned specifically here, check into the
subliminal, self hypnosis or other more broad categories as they often
contain very many specific things as well. The
hypnosis area contains virtually anything you can imagine - dozens and
dozens of specifically, targeted hypnotic sessions.
"Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better." - Jim Rohn
Please understand, no matter what your challenges, you aren't so drastically
different from anyone else who has accomplished any or all of the things you
want to do.
I don't care who you are, what you do, where you come from or how you
currently feel about yourself - I can personally guarantee you several
1) You are a human being.
2) You have a head.
3) You have blood pumping through your heart
4) You have a mind that can learn or unlearn virtually anything
5) By some means or another, you have the ability to be reading this right
Now, at first glance this might not seem all that big or important to you. I
understand, our media and society have trained us to be negative and not
very impressed by something unless it comes shooting out of a cannon with
Well, these qualifications that YOU have are the same in every single other
human being on this planet capable of reading the English language (even
through the use of a translator). What this means is you are the same
as everyone else in every way that matters.
So no matter who you are, where you come from, what you are shaped like, how
big or small, how many fingers or toes, what shade your skin or eye color is
or anything else is completely irrelevant in every way that matters to
learning, changing, growing or improving as a person.
YOU are just as good (or bad) as anyone else. No matter what your parents,
classmates, teachers, television programming, newspaper articles, ignorant
passers by may have brainwashed you into feeling about yourself on a regular
basis.. making THAT feel like it is your reality and truth is only, IN FACT
a program. That you can change. If that is your desire to accomplish in
It is important that you care about yourself. It is also important that you
want better for yourself.
I highly recommend getting a picture of yourself as a baby or young child
when you look innocent, before you "learned" so many of the World's cruelty
and ignorance - take a good, long look at that picture and think to
yourself, "doesn't this beautiful, innocent child deserve better than I am
currently thinking about and/or treating it?"
It's never too late while you've got air in your lungs and blood flowing
through your body.
Take THIS moment, right now as your wakeup call to treat THAT very child
(YOU!) very well, re-raise that child the way it SHOULD be raised. With
positive thoughts, goals, the knowledge that it is as good as everyone else,
lessons in SPECIFIC areas of interest instead of just blanket knowledge that
will hardly ever be of any use.
Be patient, be kind, be focused. If you are like the rest of us, you have
been programmed by all of this negativity, so you'll need to cultivate what
it means to be a proper teacher at the same time. Regular input of new,
wanted information - mind and thought training, bodily discipline and
lifestyle changes that support who you REALLY want to be.
Think about the things, experiences, feelings and surroundings you WANT. Do
NOT entertain thoughts, tv shows, newspaper articles, conversations or
things that you DON'T WANT. Once you've done this for a while, you will be
AMAZED to see the negative, self defeating World you've been participating
in all these years - and you'll clearly see how you came to feeling so badly
But these are new times, you're in charge, you're awake and aware of what
you're doing. You think about, talk about, set goals and plans based on the
things, experiences, lifestyle and surroundings you want.
How do you want to change your mind, body and spiritual connection with the
What hobbies do you or would you enjoy doing?
What do you need to learn and do to better earn and manage money?
What so and so is doing that makes everyone so mad is NONE of our business!
If we only had the time we spent up until now in idle gossip to re-spend on
improving ourselves, the World would be a different place already.
But we don't. All we have is NOW. This moment. What improvements in your
life would bring you joy in this moment?
The steps are the same no matter what you choose. And realize.. it is your
CHOICE. Even if you are in prison, Your thoughts are 100% yours to do
whatever you want. Everything begins in thought.
Think about all that exists. There are literally MILLIONS of choices.
Decide / choose the things that you like / want / enjoy.
Learn how to get / use / improve / do those things.
Follow those instructions. Repeat.
Repetition and practice are important. EVERYTHING takes time. Be patient and
enjoy the process you ARE making it happen!
“I went to a bookstore and asked the saleswoman, 'Where's the self-help
She said if she told me, it would defeat the purpose.” -- George